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Men often struggle with what to do for Valentine’s Day.

So they default to the usual: a card, flowers, maybe dinner.

Nothing wrong with that.

But what if this year you approached not just the day, but your life with her, in a way that truly shows love?

To understand that, we need to go back to the beginning...

And the reality that he first husband in history failed his wife.

In Genesis 3, the serpent questioned God, and Eve took the fruit.

Adam was with her.

But he did not correct the lie, intervene, or protect.

He stood by.

So the first failure in marriage was not aggression—it was abdication.

Many men today fall into the same trap.

Leadership feels risky and silence seems safer.

But silence is not love.

Husbands must understand...

Wives feel unloved when they feel alone in major decisions, boundaries, parenting, and spiritual direction.

The way to correct this is not to 'take control.' It's courageous responsibility.

Speak when silence would be easier.

Decide when indecision drags on.

Lead in prayer, boundaries, and protection.

And there's hope for you in this.

Christ, the greater Adam, did not stand silent.

He spoke, confronted evil, and bore the curse for His Bride.

Husbands are called to love in this pattern—sacrificially, actively, responsibly.

This Valentine’s Day, give her more than flowers.

Give her a husband who leads with love, lays down his life for her good, and shows her the steady presence she needs...

Like the greater Adam did for His Bride.

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